Bossplayah Haven
You Deserve More Than a Referral.
Sanctuary & Support for Lasting Change.
Need Help Right Now?
If you are in immediate danger, please reach out immediately. You are not alone.
Free. Confidential. Available 24/7.
1 in 4
women experience domestic violence in their lifetime
500K+
people experience homelessness in the US on any given night
70%+
of homeless women have experienced domestic violence
100%
of net proceeds fund real programs and support
The Phoenix
Built With Vision and Purpose.
Bossplayah Haven was born out of lived experience — not theory. Our founder walked the referral loop herself: one agency for housing, another for counseling, another for childcare, and none of them talking to each other. People in crisis don't have time for that.
So we built something different. Under one roof, with one team, we provide holistic, integrated care that meets people exactly where they are — whether they're fleeing abuse, fighting addiction, raising children alone, or staring down homelessness. You don't get handed off. You get held.
The Haven is where the cycle ends and the story changes. We believe everyone who walks through our doors carries the strength of a phoenix — and we are here to fan that fire, not extinguish it with paperwork and waitlists.
— Howie & Doreen Alualu, Founders
Our Services
The Sanctuary
Compassionate, contained, consistent care — all in one place. No referrals. No waiting lists. No gaps.
Single Parents & Families
From childcare navigation to legal aid and income stability, we walk alongside single parents at every stage — because thriving children start with supported families.
Domestic Violence Recovery
Safety planning, trauma-informed counseling, and long-term healing resources for survivors who are ready to reclaim their lives on their own terms.
Homelessness Prevention & Addiction Recovery
Stable housing paired with compassionate addiction recovery services — because healing cannot happen without a safe place to lay your head.
The Process
How It Works
One place. One plan. One team — from crisis to stability.
Reach Out
Contact us through our website, social media, or email. No formal application. No judgment — just a conversation.
Intake & Listening Session
We sit down with you — virtually or in person — and listen to understand the full picture. Where are you now? What’s most urgent? What does stability look like for you?
Stability Assessment
Together we identify which areas need immediate attention — safety, housing, sobriety, finances, family. We prioritize what’s most critical first.
Your Sanctuary Plan
We build a personalized support plan — one plan, one pathway, one point of contact. No being sent to five different agencies. We coordinate everything through Haven.
Wraparound Support
We walk alongside you through domestic violence recovery, housing navigation, addiction support, and single-parent resources — all in one place, at your pace.
Transition to Stability
When you’re stable — housing secured, safety established, support systems in place — we help you step into independence with confidence.
Community Roots
Real Stories. Lasting Change.
Every number represents a life transformed. These are the faces behind the mission.
"I finally felt like I wasn't carrying it alone."
After years of couch surfing and hiding her situation from her children, Maria found Bossplayah Haven through a friend. Within six months, she had stable housing, a counselor she trusted, and a plan.
Read More →"They didn't just give me resources — they gave me hope."
Leaving an abusive relationship with two kids and no income felt impossible. The Sanctuary gave her a team — not a pamphlet — and she never had to start over from scratch again.
Read More →"Recovery looked different when someone actually believed in me."
Three years into addiction, Danielle walked into the Haven expecting judgment. What she found was a room full of people who had been exactly where she was — and a path forward built just for her.
Read More →“Sanctuary & Support for Lasting Change.”
Support the Mission
Tools That Transform Lives
Every purchase directly funds our programs. Download a resource, fund a sanctuary.
From Surviving to Stable
$24
A 90-day rebuilding workbook for anyone navigating DV recovery, housing instability, and single parenthood. Six phases from Safety to Next Chapter — with a Washington state resource directory, checklists, and reflection prompts.
Get It NowBoss Mom Blueprint
$19
A 30-day survival playbook for single parents stretched thin. Four weekly pillars: Money, Kids, Self, Goals — with co-parenting boundary scripts, daily trackers, and printable affirmation cards.
Get It NowHaven Advocate Kit
$15
A complete toolkit for supporters who want to do more than donate. Includes social media captions, fundraising email templates, event flyers, and donor impact stats to mobilize your community.
Get It NowProceeds fund real programs
We're a non-profit. Every dollar from your purchase goes toward building the sanctuary our community needs.
Instant digital download
Access your guide in seconds. No waiting, no shipping — just immediate tools in your hands.
Real tools, not filler
Written by people who've lived it. Grounded in real experience, not theory or fluff.
Support the Haven
Every contribution goes directly to serving our community — guides, resources, and safe pathways for those who need it most.
$50
Change a Life
Makes a meaningful impact — funding one person's full journey through the Sanctuary Model.
Give $50Ministry Partner
Tables Turned: Rise From The Ashes
Faith-based restoration and renewal for those reclaiming their lives.
Pastor Howie Alualu
&First Lady Doreen Alualu
Get Your Free Stability Starter Guide
Enter your email and we'll send you our free 5-step guide — the same framework we use to help people move from crisis to stability.
Questions & Answers